A study of the literature, she says, showed that over their college careers, the average student had eight total casual sexual encounters in total.
While eight “hook ups” over four years may not seem like a lot by today’s promiscuity standards, it does highlight, Wade says, how young women have taken on traditional male gender practices in dating.
They’re very deep and introspective, really open to experimentation of any kind, and they have weird haircuts. This was, of course, not the first time I’d had to listen to him complain about the hopelessness of his situation, despite the seemingly endless list of available male suitors I’d brought to his attention. E And I think to myself, well, okay, the solution is blatantly clear. And what if he were to discover he was actually straight? I’m freaking out a bit and I’m like, “Oh my God, what? ” And he takes it off, examining it, and he’s like, “Well, it’s all wet down there.” I lift my eyes, red and puffy from the pot, defeated and full of shame as I realize… Well, that was me.” So, I guess it’s safe to say that the whole experiment was basically a failure.
In my case, the first year there was fraught with exploration. I learned how to become “a clean sheet of paper”; I learned how to breathe through my coccyx; I learned that pretty much anyone would have sex with me. I developed this (possibly misplaced) sexual pride, based solely on the quantity of penetrations of my vagina… I decide it’s time to get to the root of the problem and see exactly what Jon isn’t enjoying about his newfound same-sex sex. I would have saved him from a life of dysfunctional penetration. We grind and bump for a good ten, fifteen seconds when suddenly he grabs me and is like, “Oh my God, oh my God…. You’ll be happy to know that Jon has accepted his homosexuality and hasn’t had sex with a woman since.
Purveyor of hook-up pop The Weeknd even wrote an ode to it, with his mega-hit “Often.” “You on your phone texting your friend to come f–k.