Chances are, you don’t need to be anybody else to attract a great girl. But you may very well need to be the best version of yourself to attract a woman. If you are a great snowboarder, she’ll sense your confidence as you talk about it.
Dress nice, bathe, smell good, ask lots of questions, smile, laugh, exhibit a little knowledge about something interesting, and most importantly listen to her. Actor George Hamilton once wrote that when he goes to a new town he finds the nicest restaurant and pays a visit in the afternoon. He gives them his credit card and says, “Please take an imprint of this.
Picture this: you’re single and it’s Valentine’s Day.
Love is in the air and you are more certain than you’ve ever been that the perfect person for you is out there. You’ve just arrived home from a long day at the office as a marketing manager.
”“Sounds fun,” he replied, “but I’m busy then.”This was ridiculous. A.”Every Monday night for the next month, I would stuff my contact lens solution into my backpack and walk to Michael’s apartment. We would talk a little, watch a little and then go to bed.
Finally I wrote, “I like you and I want to be with you.” Then I squeezed my eyes shut and pressed “Send.”Six weeks earlier, Michael and I had met on Bumble, the dating app where women have to make the first move. Afterward, I told my eager roommate that the date was “just fine,” but “just fine” was fine with me. He’d lean against my shoulder as we watched movies in his barren living room, which he decided not to decorate because he had signed only a one-year lease. In the morning, I would zip up my coat while he asked, “Heading out? By asking for more, I knew I was breaking the rules.
Not exactly the message most parents want to send to their daughters.